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John Gordon Wilkes

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John Gordon Wilkes

June 4, 1945 - September 17, 2025

Suddenly after a brief illness at Campbellford Memorial Hospital on Wednesday September 17th in his 81st year. Beloved husband of Deborah Wilkes (nee McIvor). John is lovingly remembered by his in-laws Greg McIvor (Wanda), Mike McIvor (Karen), Chris McIvor (Leslie), the late Drew McIvor, the late Beth (Reg) and the late Dan (Robin) and many nieces and nephews. At John’s request there will be no visitation or service. Cremation with interment in Cobourg Union Cemetery. If desired donations may be made to the charity of your choice.

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Ted and Lynda Hook - September 22, 2025

We are thinking of you at this sad time and know that John will be missed by many. Rest in peace John.

Judy Elliott - September 22, 2025

Deb I’m so very sorry for your terrible loss and that you have to make your way down this long old road. Keep your good memories close, talk, laugh, reminisce about all the fun things you’ve both been through it does ease the pain. Please accept my heartfelt condolences, it’s not easy.❤️

Wendi Ferguson - September 22, 2025

Deb, we are very sorry to hear this sad news. Thinking of you during this difficult time and may you find comfort in your memories. Sending hugs Wendi & Brett

dave williams - September 22, 2025

So sorry to hear of Johns passing.My deepest condolences .

Rich and Shelley Ferguson - September 21, 2025

Deb and family, so sorry to hear of John's passing. He will be missed by many, we are thinking of you all during this difficult time. Lots of love, Rich and Shelley

Carol Kirton - September 20, 2025

Dear Debbie So sorry to hear of Johns passing. Know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Carol & Bill

Bruce Morton - September 20, 2025

Sorry for your lost Deb , your on my mind.

Robyn Mcivor - September 20, 2025

We are so sorry Deb to hear of your very sad loss. John was such a lovely person and was like a son to your mum and dad. I remember all the projects John and Bud did together.John was always there to help with whatever was needed including helping Dan and I when we were there. Take Care Deb Love from Robyn Dan (dec) Beth Daniel and their families in Australia

Barb Lawrence-Tokar - September 20, 2025

Dear Deb, We’re very sorry for your loss. We've not had the chance to visit Aunt Doe this year and at the same time, getting that chance to see you and John too, during those short visits to the lake. We always fondly remember you folks whenever we get to talking with Aunt Doe, catching up with her & life, in general. Honestly, we didn't really get to know John that well. But, because of those nice quiet conversations and interactions with him, we got to know him well enough to know that he was a super nice man with a big generous heart (who clearly didn't mind too much when choosing to get involved in a neighbourly way, for all the right reasons as a good kind hearted person). It’s not stretch to say that his generous spirit will be missed by many people who knew him a little, or a lot. Again, our deepest sympathies to you, Deb and to all the rest of those friends & family closest to John, too. And, thanks John for caring & sharing. Rest in peace, sir. Stay strong, Deb. Sincerely, Barb & Pete Tokar Weston, Ont.

Alex & Joan Ferguson - September 20, 2025

Debbie we are so sorry & saddened for the loss of your beloved John. You shared a one of a kind bond that never can be broken. Our deepest condolences. Cherish the memories. Love Uncle Alex & Aunt Joan

Jeannie Ferguson - September 20, 2025

Deb& Family , so sorry for your loss , may your memories help you through this difficult time , our deepest sympathies to all of you

Tom & Rose Gadbois - September 20, 2025

So sorry to hear of John s passing our deepest condolences Deb Tom & Rose Gadbois

Cathy Stevenson Hoard - September 20, 2025

My sincere condolences to Deborah and family at this difficult time. My prayers are with you all.

Wendy Lesniewski - September 19, 2025

I have really no words i can say,we are totally shocked and you guys have been with our family so many years,our hearts go out to you Deb, you and John have done so much for my Mom, he definitely will be totally missed by everyone,

Evangeline warner - September 19, 2025

Sorry for your loss

Doug &Midge - September 19, 2025

So sorry to hear about John's passing. Sending hugs and prayers.May you find comfort in all your wonderful memories. Love always Doug and Midge

Marlene Callahan - September 19, 2025

Debby So sorry to hear about your husband my condolences and prayers go out to your family

Ric McIvor - September 19, 2025

So very sorry to hear of Johns passing , sending our sincere condolences to you and family. From Marion & Ric

Karen and Dave Tickle - September 19, 2025

Thinking of Deb at this sad time Dave and Karen

Brian Charles - September 19, 2025

We are so sorry to hear of John’s passing. Please know that we will be lifting you and all who loved him in prayer, asking for comfort, strength, and peace during this difficult time. With love and sympathy, Brian & Sherri Charles

Vicki and Carl - September 18, 2025

Deb. So sorry of John,s passing .over 50 years of best friendship lots of great memories of John we will never forget all of our Love .R.I.P John .

Deb and Bill Cole - September 18, 2025

Oh Debbie, so sorry to hear of your husband's passing when just recently we met up after many years and l was looking forward to get to know you and John ..reach out when you are ready. Rest well, John.

Larry Landry - September 18, 2025

Deb so sorry to hear of John's passing was a really nice guy

MARY Martorino and ROBERT - September 18, 2025

SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT JOHN . HE WAS SUCH A NICE GUY VERY FRIENDLY, ALWAYS SMILING . I KNOW DEB WILL MISS HER BEST FRIEND BUT YOU HAVE LOTS OF FUN TIMES AND GREAT MEMORIES OF HIM AND HE WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR HEART MARY AND ROBERT

Wayne & Barb Linton - September 18, 2025

Deb: we are so to hear of John's passing. Such a shock. Our thoughts are with you atm this sad time.

John and Nancy Thackeray - September 18, 2025

Oh Deb so sorry to hear this news. John had got to be a fairly regular member of our coffee club in Roseneath. I’m afraid once the restaurant closed we didn’t have the pleasure again. Thinking of you at this sad time.. ❤️

Lynn Holland - September 18, 2025

Dear Deb, so sorry to hear of John’s passing. Our thoughts are with you and your family. Lynn and Doug Holland.

Berni Thackeray - September 18, 2025

So sorry for your loss Deb, sending love. Berni Thackaery

Mickey Decarlo - September 18, 2025

So sorry to hear of the passing of John I always remember you and him being together on life's adventures Prayers and hugs

Brett Charles - September 18, 2025

Deb, I'm very sorry to hear of John's passing. He was always a very friendly and personable man. I know he'll be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Brett Charles and family

Danielle Kent Greenhorne - September 18, 2025

DEB,So sorry for your loss.Hold on to all the memories you shared together.

Lena Cutro - September 18, 2025

Deb, sorry for your loss - my prayers are with you and your family