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Graham Killmaster Stratford passed away peacefully on April 1st, 2024, surrounded by his family. He is predeceased by his wife of 63 years, Gabrielle (née Talbot), his brother Philip (Jacqueline), and his sister Nora (Roger). He is survived by his six sons: Richard (Sylvia), Philip (Qian), Graham (Sylvia), Michael (Ruth), Andrew (Heather), and Will (Suzanne), as well as sixteen grandchildren.
Graham was born on August 23, 1931 in Sarnia, Ontario. He was the second of three children to Reginald and Phyllis Stratford. A devoted family physician for almost 50 years in Cobourg and Whitby, he was a gentleman who naturally connected with people. Dad was a renaissance man who cared for and welcomed all.
While working as a doctor at a Canadian Air Force base in France in 1958, he met Gabrielle. They were married the same year after a storybook romance including trailing a bottle of wine in the water while rowing around Lake Como, Italy.
Dad lived 50 wonderful and peaceful years at Stillbrook, the family home. He lived his faith as a parishioner of St. Mary’s Catholic Church (Grafton) and as a long-standing volunteer with the St. Vincent de Paul Society, Knights of Columbus, and many other charities.
Beyond the professional and social accolades, Dad saw his greatest achievement as his family. He and Mum cultivated a home of hope and peace by loving each other, their family, their community, and their surroundings. Through their work in the garden and woods, their enduring hospitality, and their warm and open hearts, Dad and Mum lived a life both timeless and boundless. Dad's example inspires his children, grandchildren, family, and friends. He is and will be greatly missed.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that any donations be made to Ed’s House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre.
Sincere condolences from the McGourty Family. Graham was a Rock in our Community and we will miss him. Prayers of comfort for the families loss.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
You will be missed dearly Graham. I always enjoyed our time together in the clinic sharing stories of family, travels and life. A kind caring gentle man with a warm presence, you were always so appreciative of our time and service over the years, one of my favorite patients. Rest in peace my dear friend. Deepest condolences to the entire Stratford family.
Sending your family deepest condolences on the loss of your father. I have vague memories of his time as my family doctor. I had the pleasure of reconnecting with him not long after I joined Western University on the Development Team for Schulich School of Medicine & Dentistry. I relished the chance to chat with him - not just as a member of the Meds Class of 55 - but my parents were so fond of him. My Mum - Isabelle - sold him the first family farm. My Dad - Tom - did masonry work at Stillbrook. His memory was keen - he shared these details with me when I connected in 2020. We shared stories and photos by email. I feel blessed for that brief connection. His kindness and family pride were unmistakable. What a remarkable man and legacy. Deepest condolences to your family. Julie (Sandiland) Simpson
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
My condolences. He was such a kind and caring man.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Graham was a remarkable person with tremendous reach into the community. Our deepest condolences to the entire Stratford family and extended family who were closest to him. Flav and Sue
To the Stratford Family, our sincere sympathy on the passing of your Father. What a wonderful life he had. Lauren and Bruce Maclean
So sorry to hear that Mr Stratford's has passed away. He contributed greatly to the communities in which he lived. He will be missed. Sincerely Mike Norris
So very sorry for your loss. Dr. Stratford was a wonderful person. He will be missed. Prayers and hugs sent to your family.
Dear Philip: Our thoughts are with you & your family. Our sincere condolences at this sad time. Doreen Wilford & Bill Bates
To Philip, Graham, Andrew and the whole Stratford family. Our sincere condolences for the loss of a good, caring , and loving individual. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Your DAD was true man and a awesome doctor our condolences
To the entire Stratford family, Our deepest condolences on the loss of this wonderful man. It was a joy to have known and briefly worked with him. May you receive comfort from your fond memories, and friends and family at this difficult time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Addiction Research Foundation
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Sincere condolences in the loss of your Dad. Although you can no longer see him, he and your Mum will live on in your cherished memories in your hearts forever.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Community Care Northumberland (Ed's House)
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
To Stratford I remember wanting a career in nursing so I started out as Candy Stripper in the Old Cobourg hospital. I had the pleasure meeting Dr. Stratford in the cafeteria. He had a way of making you feel welcome and told me that you start out at the bottom and you reach for the goal. Don't give up on a dream. He always made you feel appreciated.
I was deeply saddened to hear that Dr Stratford had passed away! He was a very kind and gentle man! The world has lost a true gentleman! My deepest condolences are extended to all of the boys and their spouses and children! May God hold you all in the palm of His hand!
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Our condolences to the entire Stratford family. We'll miss your dad's kind and gentle spirit.
John and I woukd like to send our condolences to the family.. So sorry for your loss...
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
I’m so very sorry to hear of the passing of your wonderful father. He was my childhood doctor and such a kind, thoughtful gentleman, as you well know. His gentle smile always put one at ease. Please know I will be keeping all of your families in my prayers.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Our condolences to the Stratford family. Dr. Stratford was my families physician for many years at the Cobourg Clinic. He was so kind and thoughtful. Always smiling when he saw you. I’ve always had fond memories of him as my family doctor and how natural it came to him to care for you. One time as a teenager on a visit to the clinic, I noticed he had a cold. After taking care of me I said to him, “Dr. Stratford I want you to drink lots of fluids and get some rest too”. He smiled and laughed and said ok. He was one of a kind and my family and I are blessed to have had him. Our thoughts and prayers to the family. Teresa, Antonio, Pierina, Joanne and Enzo Guida
Van harte gecondoleerd met het verlies van me Graham Killmaster Standfort. Ik ben.met mjjn schoonzus Marijke Vreeburg op bezoek geweest ivm met Maple sirop Ik was onder de indruk van de persoonlijkheid en dd liefde voor de natuur. Ik herinner het mjj nog goed het was een heel prettig bexoek Veel sterkte en de herinnering aan een byzonded persoon die blijft. Byzobder nens heeft ons verlaten!!
Such a beautifully rich life Graham lived! And this wealth was evident in the warmth he showed my husband and I each and every time we visited him and Gabrielle. Graham and I shared the impulse to go and serve in Africa as well as a deep love of the natural world. He will live long in my memory as one of the very best of men. I’m sure the fine qualities that made him who he was, will be echoed in his remarkable family. Our very deepest sympathies go out to them as they live with the loss of such a wonderful father.
Such a beautifully rich life Graham lived! And this wealth was evident in the warmth he showed my husband and I each and every time we visited him and Gabrielle. Graham and I shared the impulse to go and serve in Africa as well as a deep love of the natural world. He will live long in my memory as one of the very best of men. I’m sure the fine qualities that made him who he was, will be echoed in his remarkable family. Our very deepest sympathies go out to them as they live with the loss of such a wonderful father.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
My sincere condolences to the family.Dr.Stratford was my families Dr.for many years,until he left the clinic.He was always such a caring man.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
So sorry for your loss.My condolences to you all. Growing up in Cobourg he was my family doctor and a wonderful doctor he was. I became very ill at the age of two after travelling to Europe. My parents went to see many doctors but they all dismissed my illness as the flu. One night they decided that this was more than the flu and running a fever of 103 they took me to the hospital where I was lucky enough that your father was working at that time. He examined me and ran tests and diagnosed me with spinal meningitis. He saved my life. He told my parents had they waited till the morning there would have been nothing he could have done. He was truly a wonderful doctor.
My sincere condolences to the Stratford families.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital - Palliative Care
Graham was one of the finest persons I ever knew. Calm, softspoken, honest, welcoming and friendly to all, strong and steadfast in his beliefs but never argumentative, always respectful of the views of others, hardworking, greatly respected in his community and a caring family man. Both his parents had disabilities; from them he learned the strong sense of values that he maintained throughout his lifetime. Gay grew from childhood into a healthy, strong, lean and handsome man, yet humble and charming. I always had the greatest admiration for him.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Dear Andrew and Family I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. You and the family will be in my heart and thoughts. Andrea, Emilie and Nickolas Anderson
Our sincere condolences to the Stratford family and our friends Christine, Rick, Robert, and Elizabeth Sancton. Our thoughts are with you, Gaby and Martin.
To the Stratford Family: I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending condolences to all of you at this difficult time. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
To the Stratford families Dr Graham Stratford was a lovely person in all he did .Your parents were a beautiful couple whom set an amazing example for all who new them always kind .I had the privilege of knowing him professional and personal through our daughter going to school with the youngest .Many blessings sent to all the family.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
To the Stratford Family, Our deepest sympathy for the great loss of your Father and Grandfather. Dr. Stratford and your Mother were people of service in the parish and community. It was a privilege to know them. May your treasured memories of your Father and Grandfather bring you comfort. May God’s peace be with all of you at this difficult time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
St. Mary's Catholic Church
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Phillip, Andrew and families: my condolences on the passing of your father. Although I never met your father, the staff told many positive, wonderful stories of how kind and caring a doctor/person he was.
Condolences to the whole family, from the Australian Jones contingent. Graham was a wonderful man, so glad we got to spend time with him (and pretty much the whole family) at Stillbrook. Thinking of you all ❤️
Our hearts go out to all the Stratford family and to those who knew and loved Graham. We are left with so many happy memories--camping, skiing, boating, fireworks, and time spent together. He is part of the foundation of our childhood and will be dearly missed.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Thinking of Graham today - what an amazing life. Devoted partner to Gay, a most loving and caring Father and a dedicated Doctor. It was a privilege to have known you .
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation
Dear Stratford Family, Your parents were wonderful, kind, loving people and I feel so privileged to have had them in my life growing up. They demonstrated to all of us Stewart kids how good friendships can be, with laughter, fun parties and firm handholding when times were tough. They were always warm and welcoming to everyone around them. True salt of the earth. I am thinking of you as you mourn and celebrate your dad’s life. With deepest sympathy, Cathy
Our sincere condolences to the Coburg Stratford families. We have very fond memories of the Stratford reunion at Stillbrook years ago. Your Dad will be missed.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
My deepest sympathy to all the Stratford family. Dr. Stratford was such a kind, gentle, wonderful man. I was his patient as a child and adult and so was my first born. She had a chronic condition and Dr Stratford did his utmost best to be available any time we needed him which was a true blessing during a difficult time. Heaven has received another angel. Gone but never forgotten.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Family of Dr.Stratford Your father was a wonderful person and he will be missed. I hope knowing that he is now with your Mom in heaven can bring you all some comfort. I will remember you all in my prayers Jane
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
I was just a young nurse newly married when I first met and worked with Graham on the Obstetric unit at the old Cobourg hospital in 1975. I interviewed him at the Cobourg Clinic when I was looking for a new family Dr. I remember he laughed as I don't think anyone had done this before. He was a wonderful and caring Dr. He was a quiet soul and had great respect for all the nurses that assisted him in the delivery room. He was so proud of his family and his boys that followed in his footsteps. Condolences to all his family. He will be sorely missed.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Dr. Stratford was one of a kind! (Then) I have met his doctor sons and they are chips off the same block! He was always great to work with, and if you didn’t know something he had a gentle way of teaching. He will be missed, but look at the legacy he and your mom created! You are all blessed to have know such love!
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
To the Stratford Families. I’m sorry for your loss❤️. He was so lovely - the very definition of the word ‘Gentleman’. The world is an infinitely better place for having had Graham Stratford in it. God Bless.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Our condolences to all the Stratford family. We have many fond memories: skiing - your Dad riding up the rope tow, (back in the day); ski lessons; your blind dog, Go Go, who spent some time with us when you were away. Your Dad was a fine man. He will be missed. May he rest in peace. Pat & Carol Doyle
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
To the Stratford Family - In 1987, as a young Registered Nurse, new to Cobourg, I found employment at Streamway Villa Nursing Home. Your Dear Dad was our 'Medical Advisor' & I fell inlove with him instantly, he was the kindest/most gentle/genuine & deeply caring Doctor, so rare to find. I ran into your Dear Dad, last November, I expressed to him how sorry I was to hear of his Dear wife's passing (your precious Mom) in his so soft/gentle voice, he said that he misses her immensely & does get lonely at times, I told him that I had recently retired & that maybe I could pop in for a visit, his repy in his kind/gentle voice, replied "I would love that Katie" I will forever feel saddened that our visit never happened. What a wonderful reunion, it must have been in Heaven, on Easter Monday, your Dear Dad & Mom, together again 😇 😇
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
We send our prayers and deepest condolences to the entire Stratford family. Your Dad was a sweet man and we will always remember his lovely smile and soft spoken nature. May you find comfort in knowing that your Mum and Dad are dancing together again. May you cherish the happy memories from Stillbrook and find contentment in knowing that you brought so much joy to your parents. They are at peace in God's loving arms.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
We will treasure all the good memories we have been blessed to share with the Stratford family .May Graham and Gabrielle rest in peace, a life well lived . A donation to Eds house has been made in their memory.
A donation has been made to Ed's House
To the Stratford family, It was with great sadness that I read of your dad's recent death. He was a wonderful family doctor and a wonderful next door neighbour when the family lived on Ontario St. in Cobourg. He will be greatly missed. R.I.P
Our condolences to the Stratford family. Graham was a gracious and non-judgemental and considerate man who went out of his way for others. He was a man’s man in the best, most honourable sense of the expression and did much more than his share of the heavy lifting in our community. He will be greatly missed and fondly remembered. Dave & Marilyn
Deepest condolences to the Stratford family.
It must be great comfort to the family that their father's was a life well lived and that he can join Gabrielle again. My thoughts are with you. Dietlinde Frey
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Deepest condolences to all the family of Dr Stratford. We had him as a doctor for many years, and he always had a way of making you feel that everything would be okay. That beautiful smile of his actually would light up a room. RIP dear soul, be at peace
To the whole Stratford Family, Losing a parent is never easy and on learning the sad news of the passing of your father, we want to extend our thoughts and condolences to all of you. Most sincerely, Don and Hélène
Dr Stratford and your family are in our thoughts and prayers today. We will forever remember your Dad’s gentle spirit, kind and knowledgeable words and his heartfelt laughter with a twinkle in his eye. Today, your family is a reflection of the deep love, committment and care that he gave as a father, doctor, neighbor and friend to all. Your Dad was simply a remarkable and humble man. We will celebrate with your family online tomorrow and send our deepest sympathies. Many blessings to you all. Francesca, Juliet, John and family
Dr Stratford and your family are in our thoughts and prayers today. We will forever remember your Dad’s gentle spirit, kind and knowledgeable words and his heartfelt laughter with a twinkle in his eye. Today, your family is a reflection of the deep love, committment and care that he gave as a father, doctor, neighbor and friend to all. Your Dad was simply a remarkable and humble man. We will celebrate with your family online tomorrow and send our deepest sympathies. Many blessings to you all. Francesca, Juliet, John and family
We are so sorry to hear of our Good Doctor He served his Country and served his community above and beyond We have lost a friend . Graham you have stayed the course. You have done your duty above and beyond your calling Rest in peace Good Doctor
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Our deepest sympathy to all the members of the Stratford Family. Graham was a wonderful man and a father to be proud of. Love Peter and Sharon
My sincere sympathy to his family . Always enjoyed visiting with him after Mass
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
To all of Dr. Stratford’s family, So so very sorry for your loss! Our paths crossed many times over many years! He was an absolute gentleman; always friendly and of such a gentle nature. Most sincerely, Tom & Carol Ann
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Stratford Family: We were saddened to learn of your Father, Grandfather passing on. A beloved doctor and friend, he will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
An absolutely amazing man from an even more amazing family, as a young boy in our little neighbourhood you could feel the love emanating from this household ,depending on the season skis , hockey sticks , always a faint cookie smell and their welcoming smiles. I actually owe Doc for saving my young life at Rice lake during one of our excursions on the boat , deftly plucked out of the waters and returned safe to terra firma , so thanks to Dr and Mrs Stratford for just being you , fly free .
Bsr Richard, un moment difficile... Reçois mes sincères condoléances. Bon voyage à ton papa et courage à vous tous.
Will, Suzanne, Andrew, Heather and Family: we were so very sorry to hear about your Dad. Please know that our thoughts are with you and your family ❤️ Sami, Maiju, Anna and Sara Tenngren
Dear Will, Suzanne and Family: We were so very sorry to hear about your Dad. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. ❤️🙏🏻
Graham really loved the outdoors and apparently he was the one who sparked Frank's interest in making maple syrup and, heating with wood. Although I hadn't known Graham well I was struck by his love of history and that magical room of antique electric trains. With the flick of a switch Frank and I were transported to a land of adventure!
To the Stratford family..your dad was quite simply a wonderful human being..and a very caring thoughtful physician..he helped bring both my sons into this world and was our caregiver for many many years..hold all your beautiful memories close in the days ahead..please accept our sincere condolences..Rosemary and Jamie Taylor..
Dear Richard, Philip, Graham, Michael, Andrew, Willy, and family, My condolences on the passing of your dad. He was a true gentleman, I will always remember his smile, voice and laugh. I always looked forward to seeing him. I know my father enjoyed his time with Graham, whether it was playing tennis, mulching leaves together, going for walks or enjoying a drink and conversation. Lots of great memories too. I remember the army Jeep, hockey on the pond and your home. Your Dad was a great role model for all those that knew him. Rest in peace. Bruce Wilson
I had the privilege of having your father as my physician. He was a great man and doctor. My condolences to you and your family.
Our condolences to family and friends of Dr. Stratford. Such a wonderful and caring man. RIP Dr. Stratford
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
My most sincere condolences to the Stratford family for their loss. Even though I did not know Graham, it sure looks like he was a wonderful and kind person. My thoughts and prayers are with you. C. Evans.
Stratford family I did not know your dad well, but no know he knew and worked with mom- Barbara Ann Fisher many years I ran into him when he came out skiing with an old friend of his - John Zimmerman. They’d tell me many stories of there adventure. This was at Brimacombe - the old Oshawa ski club or Kirby as he remembered it. I was and still am the Manager of the Snow School. I loved the visits and the stories. Hang onto the stories and remember them well Take care my thoughts are with you Jayne Fisher
Stratford family I did not know your dad well, but no know he knew and worked with mom- Barbara Ann Fisher many years I ran into him when he came out skiing with an old friend of his - John Zimmerman. They’d tell me many stories of there adventure. This was at Brimacombe - the old Oshawa ski club or Kirby as he remembered it. I was and still am the Manager of the Snow School. I loved the visits and the stories. Hang onto the stories and remember them well Take care my thoughts are with you Jayne Fisher
So sorry for your loss. Another beautiful soul in heaven ❤️
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Our deepest sympathy to Graham's family. Graham was a long time friend and customer to our father Tony Vandermeer and the Vandermeer Toyota family . He will be sadly missed. Hank and staff at Vandermeer Toyota.
Sincere condolences to the Stratford family. Graham certainly set the gold standard in every avenue of his life. He was the best as a doctor, a father and a member of his community. You were fortunate to have his love until he reached 93! Thinking of all of you!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad and difficult time. Your father was such an amazing, generous man and Doctor. He gave so much of himself to his patients and was always there for our family. Graham was a kind, thoughtful, generous and very special man. He will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Hold onto to all the beautiful memories you have of your father and let them guide you through this sad and difficult time. Please know that your family is in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Sincerely Cyndy and Rob Harper
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Our thoughts are with all of you at this time. Your father certainly was a very special man..a wonderful kind & gentle Dr. who gave so much of himself for the good of others. May the wonderful memories you have of him ease the sorrow you are going thru at this time. Sincerely Bernadette & family
Will, Suzanne and Clan, Our heart felt sympathy as you mourn and memorialize your dear Dad. We are blessed to be part of your circle and feel the love and hope and safety within your home, family, careers and friendships. Let us acknowledge and appreciate, that some of this love and hope comes from the beloved Graham and Gabrielle Stratford. God bless. Be well.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Our condolences to you Andrew and your family. Graham gained his earthly wings years ago, now has his heavenly wings. Thinking of you, as you grieve his loss. ❤️
Andrew thinking of you and your family during this difficult loss.
I am the widow of Graham W. Stratford. I am sorry for your loss. I know your Dad was a pillar in his community and will be missed. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Dr. Stratford was the perfect example of a caring, wonderful doctor. He made a house call to us once when we lived out in the country, in Coldsprings, delivered our son and made call backs to check on improvements to our conditions. We were sad when he retired, but he continued his fulfilling life with his family and work. Sincerest condolences to the whole Stratford family. God bless you, R.I.P Dr. Stratford.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Will and family, I'm sorry to hear about your dad's passing. You would sometimes tell a story about your parents and how deeply they loved each other. They are back to each other's arms now, hugging each other (that's how I would imagine them). Take your time to be with your family. Our deepest condolences. Karen, Kirk & Kian
My Sincere Condolences to the Stratford family. Graham was a good friend.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Northumberland has lost a true hero for so many. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this difficult time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
My deepest condolences to Phil, Qian and the Stratford family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
To the Stratford family .. our heartfelt sympathy to all of you in the loss of Graham . He was such a caring , kind man who together with Gay had a wonderful life of service to his community . They were such gracious hosts who made everyone feel welcome in their home . Condolences to all of you 🙏
My condolences to the Stratford family. Dr Stratford was very much a gentleman and a wonderful physician. I greatly admired the compassion with which he treated his patients and staff at the hospital.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Our condolences to the Stratford family. May the many memories you have of Graham help you through this difficult time.
Graham was one of the first Family Physician-Anaesthetists I worked with when I came to Cobourg. I will always remember him as a quiet spoken Gentleman with a variety of interests. As I write, I recall ice boat sailing up on Rice Lake. He was and will be missed. A ‘classic’ Family Doctor in the true sense. Michael
On behalf of my mom Nan, I wish to extend heartfelt condolences to the Stratford family. Graham was such a kind and gentle soul, providing wonderful care for my mom when she moved to Grafton and then becoming such a wonderful friend always at the side of his adoring wife Gay and all the Stratford boys just a few pews away at St. Mary's. We will miss your sweet smile Graham.
We are the family of the late Bill Lyons. We would like to express our condolences to all of your family. Not only was he our dad's Doctor, but he was a friend. They spent many hours out on Rice Lake fishing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Our sincere condolences to the Stratford family. Dr. Graham was a kind and ever caring family physician. He was a true family man committed to his wife and the boys. He enjoyed being with people and being part of numerous humanities and community programs. Rest in peace.
Your dad was an amazing doctor! I'm so sorry to hear this and will offer up a prayer for your family. Rest in peace.
Stratford family I was saddened to hear of the loss of your dad .He was our family doctor for many years .Delivered both of my children many moons ago .I remember him coming to our house on occasions when no other doctors did that sort of thing .He was truly a gentleman and will be missed by many in the area .Again my condolences to the family .Boys I can only hope you car on the family values of your parents . RIP my friend.
Andrew, Heather, and family, we are so very sorry for your loss.
Our sincerest condolences Graham was a great guy
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I am grateful to have spent some of my formative years frequenting the Stratford homes in Cobourg and Grafton. Dr. & Mrs. Stratford offered a world of adventures, and encouraged me and Rick to supplement our schooling with reading British Comic Books, organising "Perfume-Making Contests" for our Grade 6 Class, and writing and producing crazy plays at school. I recall having been so very impressed that Dr. Stratford even took the time to help Rick and me build the 8 foot tall "Time Pumpkin", the feature prop for our play of the same name. At some point I realised that Dr. Stratford was not JUST the boys' dad, but also a Family Doctor, who looked after some of my own family members. I still recall thinking to myself how great it was that someone could be a Doctor, a Dad, a Jeep-Driver, a Toboggan Run-Builder, and an Outdoor Skating-Rink builder, all at the same time! This insight proved pivotal to me, as I began to consider my education options through High School ... and decided to try and become a Family Doctor myself... but without giving up the opportunities to get the most out of family, friends, and community. And now, 40 years after my graduation from Queen's Medical School, I have the opportunity to pass along my condolences AND appreciation to the whole Stratford family, and especially Dr. Graham and Mrs. Gaye Stratford, for their profound influence on contributing to the person I am today. Dr. Michael Dillon, Shawnigan Lake, BC
Graham Killmaster Stratford was my family doctor when I was a kid back in the 70s and 80s he was the best doctor and was always nice he will be missed
It is the end of an era. I knew his mum and dad. Shish was an exceptional woman. Nonie and I shared physiotherapy experiences in London in the 50s My brother Jim was more in touch with you all but I did hear such wonderful stories. Thinking about you all. Bill and I send love and happy memories. Mufty
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
As a student nurse I met Dr Stratford years ago. He impressed me with his gentlemanly manners and the warmth that accompanied his intelligence. My condolences to the family for such a loss.
Our deepest condolences to the Stratford family. Dr Stratford was a kind and wonderful person.
Our heartfelt condolences to our dear cousins and their wonderful families. Graham's family really did mean the world to him! He will be greatly missed by family extensions as well. Catherine and Denis and family
My thoughts and prayers are with you. He was a wonderful kind doctor who cared about all and we have lost another great doctor from the town of Cobourg but we are lucky to have his devoted sons in the profession. rest in peace Dr. Stratford. You will be remembered
Our deepest condolences to the Stratford family. Dr. Stratford will be greatly missed. We are blessed to have had him in our lives and we can find comfort with our fond memories of him and how he touched our hearts with his warm smile and his kind spirit. He and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.
On behalf of St. Mary's CWL, I extend condolences to all the Stratford family on the loss of a dear father and grandfather. He will be greatly missed at St. Mary's Church and in the community. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Patricia Murphy, President of St. Mary's CWL Council, Grafton
My condolences to the Stratfords; though I never met Dr Graham, I know the family holds him very dear. God bless all of you in this time.
My condolences to all of your family at this time. Love to all the family.
To Philip, Qian, and all of the Stratford family, please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your wonderful Father. I have many memories of you brothers from our days at St. Michael's School. Philip and I were in the same class and I am sure my Mother taught most of you. Dr. Stratford was a highly regarded physician and I am sure those of you boys who have chosen to follow in his footsteps will be just as highly regarded. Your Mom and Dad are reunited, once again. May they enjoy eternal happiness together, Sincerely, Carmel Scott.
Sending sincere condolences to the entire family. I remember Dr. Stratford and Gay well from my youth growing up and attending St. Mary’s Church in Grafton.
It is with sadness and condolence that I write this short note to the Stratford family. I did not know Dr Graham for very long but i know how much he was loved snd revered so my heart goes out to them and especially Dr. Philip Stratford in this very sad time.
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Will - My condolences to you and all of your family. Thinking of you during this time.
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Michael and I were so sad to hear of Graham's death He had looked frail the last time we saw him but there is still a tremendous sense of loss when someone of whom you are so fond dies. It is very hard to believe that he and Gay are no longer here. They were a true unit together. Their personalities complimented each other and they were immemsely proud of their family - rightly so. Graham and Gay were so kind to us when we arrived in Cobourg in the 1970's. I have memories of Graham helping us saw down a Christmas tree in freezing weather and of Gay serving us tea in a warm kitchen. She once proudly showed me a very early photograph of her and Graham. They made a handsome pair. Both created such a rewarding life together with family and friends. Graham was a truly caring and gentle physician. He delivered our son in 1977. We shall miss him. He was a unique and true gentleman. Our deepest sympathies to all the Stratford family. .
So sorry for your loss. I have great memories of your dad when we were growing up. He always seem to have a smile.
So sorry to hear about your dad’s passing, he was such a sweet man. Sending condolences to the families!
My condolences to your Family. Our family was fortunate enough to have Graham as our family doctor for a number of years. What a blessing he was! Such a kind and sincere man.
Are condolences to all family members, what a wonderful and fulfilling life your Dad and grandfather lived.
I am so sorry for your loss such a nice man your father was I first met him when he would come into Streamway Villa where I worked for years, my thoughts and prayers are with you all Jan
We want to express our condolences to you Andrew, Philip ,Richard,Graham, Michael and Will on your father’s passing. In 1976 , we met “Dr . Stratford” and Ari accepted a position at the Cobourg Clinic where he continues to this day. It was because of the welcome we received from both Gabrielle and Graham in those early years that helped us decide to spend our own lives in this wonderful community. He set a standard for the country Family Doctor who worked night and day, delivered babies, provided anaesthesia,made house calls , worked in the ER , never losing his empathy, humanity and love of his vocation, and of his family. May he rest in well deserved peace.
Our sincerest condolences to the Stratford boys and their wonderful families. Graham was a very kind, caring, and gentle man. A skilled physician who gave his all to his patients. Graham will be missed; especially at St. Mary's in Grafton. Graham is now at peace with Gay looking down with pride. God bless Stratford family.
Will, Suzanne and Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. We are thinking of you. Tanya and Dave Wilkinson
Prayers and thoughts are with all the family at this time.Dr Stratford was our family physician for a number of years Bob and SusanClement
Dr. Stratford helped so many people, and his sons now carry onn his legacy. Sincere condolences to all of you
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What a wonderful eulogy for a great man. We are both sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss. Your father was a wonderful doctor and he will missed. He never questioned me when I would call him as he know that I would not call if I wasn't sure my child wasn't sick.
A wonderful gentleman and a caring doctor. The world has been slightly diminshed with the loss of the man. Sincerely sympathies to his family! - David Ashcroft.
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Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
A lovely,caring man. He will be missed
A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:
Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre
Will and Suzanne and your family; We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad and Grandfather. The photo shows there is so much more to tell about Graham, especially married to Gabrielle and the wonderful stories we have heard from your visits to Stillbrook. Your Dad will be missed, but he will live on in the stories you tell about him and your Mom, and the memories they gave all of you. We hope the stories bring more laughter than tears. Our deepest condolences and we will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. Rene and Laurie.
Dear Stratford family. Our truly deepest sympathy on the passing of such a caring wonderful soul. Besides helping me “deliver” our daughter he also home visited when she was ill. He also looked after my mother when he “retired” and took on a Whitby institution. A coffee visit with my sister & I to go over her autopsy as Alzheimer’s was a relatively new “disease”. He was a true doctor in every sense of the word. God Bless you🙏
Philip, Andrew and family, So sorry to hear of your dad's passing. He's now reunited with your mother for eternity. Your dad was an integral part of the medical community and always devoted and working long hours. Your dad along with the newly accredited Dr. Michael Jones delivered me. Your dad said to my mom "I thought you would have been in here a few days ago." I opted to wait until Thanksgiving. You both have the same work ethic as your dad and your dad was so proud of all of you and your brothers. Treasure the memories in the difficult days ahead and your dad will never be far away. Keep sharing his stories and he'll live on forever. My deepest sympathies to each of you.
He was a great doctor and community based person. Many fond memories of his gentle, caring manner.
Our condolences to you and all the family He was our doctor for years, he was such a compassionate doctor. His smile always put you at ease
The Stratford Family Your dad and your mother spent their entire lives caring for their community. It was a pleasure to have worked with him on some of those projects.
Please accept our sincere condolences, great family doctor RIP
So sorry to hear of Graham's passing he was a great guy.
So sorry to read of Graham's passing. I was just a child when he and your Mom came to Cobourg and lived just down the street on the corner. I remember the huge carriage your Mom pushed. Graham was so kind one day when our baby daughter had a fever and I was terrified. Graham is also remembered as a member of the Cobourg Yacht Club in its early days. Your family has given so much to Cobourg and it has and is appreciated. My deepest condolences.
Bryce & I would like to send our condolences to you Andrew & your family. Our thoughts are with you❤️
Both my mother, Donny Skitch, and I had the great pleasure to have worked with Dr Stratford. He was a man of compassion and kindness to his patients and also his staff. When he smiled it was like a warm gift… Condolences to everyone who knew and loved him. Lynda Skitch Oliver
To Dr. Philip & Family, Karen and I would like to express our condolences to you at the death of your beloved father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. It is never easy for us to say good-bye to our loved ones. But nobody can take away your memories of your father. May God comfort you and family. Michael & Karen Li, Cobourg, Ontario
My deepest condolences, on your loss of this special man. He was a treasure to know.
I had Dr. Stratford for a couple of different surgeries... I remember his compassion and he had a way of making you feel comforted knowing all would be well.. He was so very kind... My heartfelt condolences to His family and friends and colleagues and neighbors... all who were part of his life..
Dear Andrew, I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. Pam Went
A beautiful gentleman with a beautiful heart. May you rest in peace Sending condolences to all who loved him.
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. We send our deepest condolences and love and prayers. Denise and Paul
Our condolences to the entire Stratford family. May all your memories find you comfort during this difficult time. John Heather and Amanda Reyns