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Cole David James LeBarge

MacCoubrey Funeral Home
30 King St. E., Cobourg

Thursday, June 8, 2023
7:00 - 9:00 PM

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Cole David James LeBarge

September 1, 1991 - June 2, 2023

It is with broken hearts and an unbearable amount of grief the family of Cole LeBarge announce his unexpected passing Friday, June 2, 2023 at the age of 31. Though he faced a great deal of adversity in his life, Cole touched and changed the lives of so many around him. He was the father of Blair, beloved son to mother Nicole LeBarge and step father Derek Henry. Cherished brother to Riley Henry and cousin Jennifer (Ryan) Roemer. Loved grandson to Mary and Dennis Wright and George and Joan LeBarge. Cole will be deeply missed by his aunts Hunter Cross and Michele Roemer, and great-niece and nephew Ryder and Scarlett. Cole will be deeply missed and forever cherished by all of his extended family and friends. Though he may not be here with us, he is gained by us all as a guardian angel. Cole had a presence and he certainly left his mark on all who he encountered. He was committed to leaving people better then he found them, and we are all better for having him as a part of our lives. I am thankful that most recently Cole was exploring his beliefs with the Bible and the Quran. I hope this gave him peace as thankfully it does me. A visitation will be held at MacCoubrey Funeral Home Thursday, June 8, 2023 from 7:00 – 9:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Northumberland Fare Share Food Bank or the Cobourg Public Library.

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mateo - November 24, 2023

i miss you man

Gene and Cheryl DiMarco - June 13, 2023

We are deeply saddened to hear about Cole's unexpected passing. Our Deepest Condolences go out to Nicole and the family. Gene and Cheryl DiMarco

Casey (S.) Berry 1390 Ontario - June 12, 2023

Nicole, Derek, Riley... I am so sorry for your loss. I'm absolutely gutted that this happened. Cole was my first real friend, my first everything. He was my confidant and my protector, my partner in crime in our younger years. I'll never forget sneaking over (sorry Nicole and Derek lol) to camp in the backyard or all the late night swims we had at my house when my parents crashed lol. We went from riding the school bus together to taking trains to Niagara Falls, to living together all over the place. I'll never forget the talks we had, the tears we cried or laughing until our stomach hurt. I know whenever Cole was in front of a bunch of the guys, he played up that tough guy exterior but inside, Cole was a loving, caring, sensitive person. I'm glad I got to see the vulnerable sides of Cole. I'm so sorry that we went down different paths, I'm so sorry I wasn't there for you when you were hurting, the way you did for me. Cole, you didn't deserve to go out like this. I know you had so much pain within you that you tried so hard to ignore and cover up. The only good in this is that you're finally rid of that pain. I love you, man. I wish I said it to you sooner. Thank you for so many memories, Cole. Thank you, Nicole and Derek for bringing cole into my life when you moved onto Ontario street. Thank you for welcoming me into your home and thanks for allowing him to continue hanging out with me after all our bus reports, detentions and suspensions too lol. I miss you so much, Cole. I'm so sorry for missing your service, I wish I could've said goodbye. Thank you so much for all of the memories and lessons, I wish I had more to remember you by. You've definitely taught me to tell the people you love how you feel before it's too late. Rest in Paradise, Cole. You can finally be at peace.

Tracey Murphy - June 11, 2023

Sending my heartfelt condolences to you All! So sorry for your loss!🙏

Bri - June 11, 2023

Nicole, I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember the times that Cole, Ryan and I, had as kids growing up. Sending you love !!!

Kathleen Ugolini - June 11, 2023

Nicole, Rob and I send our sincerest condolences to you. We are so sorry to hear Cole's passing.

Shelly - June 9, 2023

OMG Nicole so very sorry to hear about Cole, I remember him when he was a child running around, I will send a prayer for you and your family, Shelly

Mary Jean Van Dorp - June 9, 2023

Nicole and family My deepest sympathies on your loss of Cole. I do not have words that will ease your pain. He will be forever in your heart and memory. Hugs. MJ

Claudette Archibald - June 8, 2023 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Fare Share Food Bank

Hellen & Alex - June 8, 2023

Hi Nicole, so sorry to hear of cole's passing. far too young. our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. take care of yourself. love Helen and pop.

Jane - June 8, 2023

My thoughts are with Cole, his Mom and family, and you today. My deepest sympathies to everyone. I know he will be sorely missed,and hope his family and friends can stand together to get though this. I didn’t know him well, but I enjoyed his visits and his friendly, warm personality. He was a good, sincere soul. May he rest in peace.

Simon - June 8, 2023

You will be missed, cherished and honoured - every day.

Justin - June 8, 2023

Condolences from Nova Scotia, Cole and Jordan were the first guys I met when I lived in Cobourg 2014/15, and showed me nothing but respect and good times & introduced me to many. Rest up buddy, my thoughts are with your family and friends.

Mary Ellen Ellen Hardy - June 8, 2023

Dear Nicole, I am so sorry to hear of Cole's passing. Although I never met Cole I remember you telling me about him with such love .

John Wood - June 8, 2023

My deepest sympathies to Nicole, Derek and family during this difficult time.

Valerie Avann - June 8, 2023

I am very sorry to hear the loss of your son Nicole. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Lorraine McCarthy & Al Hersey - June 8, 2023

Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us everyday. Unseen, unheard, but always near, so loved, so missed, so very dear. Saying goodbye this soon seems so wrong. Let us grieve for the bond we shared and the bonds we didn’t get to form yet . The value of your friendship is beyond measure. I would pay anything to have you back for one more moment , one more memory . Since you passed too soon my friend . Life doesn't play fair!! Cole you will be dearly missed and always loved. Love you always my Friend Lorraine and Al

Dawn Reid - June 8, 2023

Nicole I was heartbroken to hear of Cole's passing. I can't imagine what you are going thru. My sympathies to you and your family. Big hugs.

Nick and Marsha Rizzo - June 7, 2023

Nicole and family, please accept our heartfelt condolences for the loss of your dear son Cole! Please feel comforted to know that in the Bible at John 5:28, 29 in part says: Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life. At Revelation 21:4,5 you will find the promise of an amazing beautiful future with life on earth. It says: And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore . The former things have passed away! In verse Rev. 5 it says The one seated on the throne said Look I am making all things new, also he says write, for these words are faithful and true!

Jane Harren Colbary - June 7, 2023

Nicole, Michelle and Family Very sorry to hear and for your loss ❤️‍🩹❤️

Betty Grandy - June 7, 2023

My deepest condolence to your family

Deanna Wootton - June 7, 2023

Nicole and Family I am so sorry for the loss of you Son and loved one. May all his wonderful memories help you through this very difficult time. 💐🤗 Deanna Wootton

Veronica Marriott - June 6, 2023

So very sorry for your loss ❤️

Laurie English and Dave Saltern - June 6, 2023

Nicole and family.We are sorry for your loss and wish nothing but comfort and beautiful memories in this time of grief. Laurie English and Dave Saltern

Barinder Gill - June 6, 2023

Sending my heartfelt condolences to Cole's family. I had the privilege of knowing Cole in our elementary and secondary school years. He was a kind friend, who would do anything to support those he had a relationship with. It's a blessing to have known Cole, but our world is left a little darker with his passing. In deepest sympathy, Barinder

Leigh Ann Lalonde - June 6, 2023

Nicole, Riley, Derek, Michelle & Family. Our deepest condolences, Mike, Leigh Ann, Maxwell & Vanessa Lalonde

Paula Reid - June 6, 2023

Jordan’s heart and mine are completely broken at hearing of your passing. Jordan thought if you as his brother and you were like another son to me. We will both miss you dearly and deeply hon!! We are better people for knowing you. You will never be forgotten. We love you!! 😢😢❤️❤️

Susan Greer - June 6, 2023

My heart breaks for this whole family. Cole qas a huge part of my life all his life. He was like a son to me, I was miss his infectious smile and light in his eyes. All my love to each and everyone of u. For Cole If tears could build a staircase, memories a lane. I'd walk right up to heaven, And bring you home again. In my great memories forever and aunt Susan xo❤

Kim Cail (Finnessy) - June 6, 2023

Nicole and family ! I am so sorry for your loss you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you can find peace. Again I am so very sorry. Kim

Rhonda Wharram - June 6, 2023

Nicole & Mary. I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt wishes are with you and your families. Stay strong through your rough times. 🥰 Love you

Kenny and Carolyn Gibson - June 6, 2023

Nicole and family, please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of Cole. We are thinking about your family during this time ♥️

Robbie-Jayne Davis - June 6, 2023

Nicole and family, I can't say how sorry I am for your loss, it is absolutely thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time...RIP Cole

Jessica Harman - June 6, 2023

My condolences to the family at this hard time. I'm so sorry 😞

Christine Wilson - June 6, 2023

Dear Nicole, We are sending love and hugs to you during this heartbreaking time. May the love and strength of family and friends and all the great memories of Cole, guide you thru your grief. Brad and Chris Wilson

Courtney grass - June 6, 2023

My deepest condolences to Nicole and the family. Your forever in our hearts Cole your always going to be loved and missed dearly. Stay safe xo

Shelley (Sauve) Ross - June 6, 2023

Nicole, George and Joan and family I’m so sorry to hear of your son/grandson’s passing. Wishing you the live and compassion at this time. Love Shelley, Cory, Christina, Alexis and Ellie

Sue Hamilton - June 6, 2023

Nicole n family so sorry sending strength n love in these horrible times God speed 🙏

Shaun and Kay Bailey - June 6, 2023

Nicole, We want to extend our deepest condolences to you. Cole was an amazing guy. Helped us out around the house when needed. Always offered his help without being asked. Always happy go lucky. We had lots of laughter and happy times. Even though sometimes as parents we don’t see eye to eye with our kids I can say this he thought the world of you and he loved you deeply and always will be your protector. He will be greatly missed. Until we meet again Favourite Cole as I used to call him. Fly high my friend. Xo

Greg Archer - June 6, 2023

Nicole I am sorry for your lose and hope you can work through this trying time best wishes Your Friend Greg

Ann & Dick Raymond - June 6, 2023

Nicole, Mary and Family. So sorry to hear of your loss. Beautiful memories will help support you through this difficult time.

Deanna Downs - June 6, 2023

So sorry for your loss! Thoughts and Prayers go out to all you family and friends.

Roxane Brunette - June 6, 2023

To all Coles family Cole always took the time to say hello to people he knew and faces he recognized. His eyes lit up when he talked about his little bud. He made sure you had a smile when we parted ways. My heart aches for all of you at this difficult time. It's not suppose to go like this. Our children are to say goodbye to us. We are not to say goodbye to them. We found peice in our dreams at night. Hold on to each other and comfort will come. Time is the healer. Look for the signs. A song hecloved comes on the radio. A sudden smell of his cologne. A commercial he laughed at. Trust me, he is letting you know that even if you can't see him, he is by your side. I will keep you in my prayers.

Tammy stimers - June 6, 2023

Sending our deepest condolences to Nicole and all the family. So sad to hear of the loss of your son Cole. Your in our thoughts during this most difficult time. RIP Cole. ❤💔❤ Sincerely Tammy & Terry Simpson.

Donna Bevan - June 6, 2023

So very sorry for your loss

Sherri Norton - June 6, 2023

Oh Nicole my heart just aches for you and your family. Cole was an unforgettable soul and he will be missed greatly. Sending you condolences and hoping you find comfort in seeing how loved he was.