Darlene Jane O'Connor

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Dear Basil, John, Jake, Becky, Lisa, Bob, Scott, Dale, & families, I am so saddened by the loss of such a wonderful woman who literally lit up a room. She was sooooo very special. I was out of the country for her celebration and was so sad to miss it. She had such a big impact on everyone she met and her life will be celebrated by all who knew her for years to come. Thinking of you all with love and prayers. Hugs. Jen xo

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Our condolences to Basil and family, we are so sorry for your loss.

Our heartfelt sympathies to your family for the loss of this beautiful lady. She will be truly missed.

Darlene, what a beautiful “Ol Boot” you were. We called each other the “Ol Boot” in all our conversations, and in our writings to and from each other, on top of when we were in person. I met Darlene, Basil, Derek, and Becky in the 80’s out in Fort McMurray. From the moment we laid eyes on each other, I knew I’d have a friend for life, and I did, except for the last day. God took you home. I believe both felt the magnanimous loss of a future time together in that moment. With my living out west on Vancouver Island, the distance was obvious, but our heart and love for one another had no distance and no time could pass that would ever change that. Every letter, or continuous Christmas card sent, Darlene would always speak of the love she felt for her family; Bas, Derek, Becky, and then once her grandchildren were born, her writing had an extra sparkle that only a Grandmother can feel. She was so proud of the life and Family she and Basil had built, and the successes they’ve all had. Darlene’s legacy will live on to eternity through the seeds of love she planted, and the roots of the family that have flourished in her husband, children, and now grandchildren. Branches will continue to bud and her legacy will reach for the stars, because all will know, Darlene was blessed to reach god’s Heaven. She’s there soaking up the stunning gardens, trails along the beautiful rivers, cutting the grass, while getting used to gentler sports, all at the same time she’s blanketed in the light and love of, Jesus. You were one of the finest, most beautiful women I have ever known, Darlene. Rest in Peace, Ya Ol Boot, you beat me to meet Jesus in person, so please ask him to save a spot beside you both on the broom-ball team for me. With great respect and deep abiding love for you, Cindy Terreberry

Unfortunately I was out of the country for 3 weeks and arrived back just after the visitation and service. I wish I could have attended. Darlene is now another piece missing from the Ste. Anne's family I was part of for 16 years. Through it I got to know her, her passion, sense of humour and love. I also got to know her family. Bas, Jake and Kelly, Becky, Maddy, Sam, Zoey, my heart goes out to you. Huge loss!

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

So very sad to hear of Darlene's passing. Her beautiful spirit and light will shine on always. She brought such love, warmth and joy to everyone blessed to know her, myself included. I always loved being in her presence! Sending love, comfort and peace to her family and friends. ❤

Darlene was one of the first people that welcomed me to Ste Annes. She always explained everything she did in the garden and always welcomed me into her space. She was a Joy and a light. Thank you for sharing her with all of us❤️. Sorry to all the family for your loss.

I am very sorry to hear of Darlene’s passing. My deepest sympathies to her family. Darlene, I will always remember when one day our treatment rooms were beside each other. From that day on, we greeted one another with “hey neighbour!” No matter how much time had passed in between and it would always just brighten my day. So I will say one last time, “hey neighbour!”

Darlene, I will forever remember you as the living embodiment of sunshine. It was a pleasure to work with her at ste Anne’s, always with a smile on your face in the gardens. Rest easy and all my condolences to your family

My condolences to Darlenes family and extended family . I first met Darlene as co- workers at Ste Anne’s Spa. But she became so much more. She became a mentor and taught me Reiki. She was an energy that will truly be missed.

I first met Darlene at Canada Post then had the pleasure of working with her at Ste Annes. You will be sadly missed. My Condolences to the family.

I am so sorry for your loss. Darlene was such a ray of light and beautiful energy. 💕

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

I will miss that beautiful face taking care of garden at St. Anne's. My condolences to the family and especially to Jake and Kelly. May god wrap her in his arms and give her the peace she deserves.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Darlene's happy face and constant smile will be with us forever!

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital Foundation

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Covenant House

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Our hearts goes out to all the family and Darlene’s friends. How fortunate we were to have had her in our lives—we know your love for her will only grow in time. Take care. Sincerely, John & Raylene

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

My sympathy to the family especially to her Dad, Lisa, Bob, Scott, and Dale. I remember Darlene riding the bus and living down the street.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Basil & family: our sincere condolences for the loss of your beautiful Darlene. She was such a wonderful person. May she now rest in peace. Cherish the memories & hold them dear to all of you.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

My deepest condolences to Bas, The O' Connor and Miller family She left her foot print of love in so many people's lives. I'll always cherish the great memories I had with her.

Basil,Becky,Jake and family. Sending our deepest sympathy and love to all. Rest in peace Darlene with your heavenly gardening angel Deb!!

Our deepest condolences to the O’Connor family!! Darlene simply was an angel and always will be!! She was the first true friend I made when I moved to Cobourg and I had the best times with her, wether it was playing hockey, broomball or golfing, her energy and zest for life was so contagious you couldn’t help but have the best time ever when I was with her!!! Darlene’s love of nature and knowledge of gardening was not to be taken lightly…she knew so much and when she gave me any gardening advice I listened!! There really aren’t enough great things to say about Darlene because it’s truly endless! We lost a legend and I’m grateful I have so many wonderful memories of her!! Thank you Darlene for making the world a better place!! Rest in Peace my friend!!!

Becky and Nolan Our sincere condolences on the loss of your mother. Hugs, Sandra & Afe

You will be missed and never forgotten!

SORRY FOR THE FAMILIES LOSSES AS DAR MADE EARTH A VERY HAPPY PLACE N WONDERFUL PLACE TO BE,SHE WILL B WELCOMED TO HER NEXT STAGE TO HEAVEN.SHE IS N WILL B MISSED BY SO MANY

To Bas & family, Jack & the lads & Lisa, I am truly sorry for your loss. Darlene was such a cheerful, happy person even when we were kids together. We will all miss her.

Oh my what can I say that hasn’t been said already. I loved Darlene. I love the way she loved her family, her career, her bees and flowers, her cottage, her love of water sports at the cottage, gosh, one could go on and on. The main thing I want to say is that during this long and difficult battle, with the help of Bas, the family (O’Connors and Millers) and friends she was a classy lady who always had time for others. Darlene you are at peace now and watching over us all. A big job, but you’re just the gal to keep us all in line. I miss you. Hugs

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

My condolences to Dar’s family. I’m so sorry for your loss. I have seen Dar in a while but I’ll always remember the great memories I had with her. Dar and her family were there for my family’s roughest time and I hope we can repay the favour to her family ❤️

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Covenant House

Lou and I send our deepest condolences to Basil, Becky, Jake and family on your loss of this beautiful sweet soul. Fly high Darlene you earned your wings and your star shines brightly over the Northumberland Hills! We surely will miss that radiant smile of yours. Rest peacefully sweet lady!

My heart goes out to everyone that Dar has touched. She touched so many people in so many ways. My life will always be blessed knowing her. Thank you Dar for touching my family's lives is many ways. Will miss you very much. Xxxxxx

So sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolence, She was a wonderful person. Our memories of her are cherished and full of laughter. She had an amazing spirit that was welcoming and open. She will be missed.

I havent seen Darlene for many years but I remember her as a wonderful person. My hearfelt condolences go to her family. Rest in peace Darlene.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

I had the honour of knowing Darlene for a short time. She welcomed me and treated me with respect and love. She made me feel included and important — like she did for all those she encountered. Thank you Darlene — though my time knowing you was short, your impact is lasting. I’m so grateful to have met you. I will never forget you.

Jake, Kelly and family We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you all during these difficult times

I’m sorry to hear of Darlene‘s passing. I didn’t know her really well, but was a teammate of hers in hockey a couple of times and really enjoyed her spunk and personality. RIP Darlene and sincere condolences to the family.

Worked with Darlene over 30 years ago before she left to garden at St. Anne's....her true passion and gift. She always greeted the day and co-workers with a smile. Condolences to the family especially Scott and Sue , also co-workers. Rest well Dar.

How do you say goodbye to Darlene who has always been my role model, my guiding light, my partner of fun times, my best friend since the day I met her? My heart is broken. I wish I could be there to share in her celebration of life. To the O’Connor and Miller family, know that Darlene is still with us in spirit and in our hearts forever. Sending love to my amazing friend and her family ❤️

Sorry for your loss. Darlene’s love of life, family and friends was truly bright and magical.

Sorry for you loss. She was cheer are team up when we played hockey.

So sorry to hear of Darlene’s passing. Her & I met when we were very young when my family moved to Cobourg. We became really close friends at that time. Joined by my brothers & Darlene’s brothers we were together daily. Then when I came in from Calgary we would always get together. Being with Darlene it was always a fun time for us. My memories of this sweet lady are eternal. My condolences to her family. Take pride in realizing how this beautiful lady changed a lot of people for the better. Rest easy my friend. ✨🌹💞

So sorry to hear this sad news. Darlene and I went to high school together. I remember her as a fine athlete and a good sport. Always friendly and smiling. My condolences to her family.

We are so sorry to hear of Darlene’s passing. We have many memories of playing ball with her and Basil. She always had a wonderful smile. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

I attended CDCI East with Darlene. I admired her great sense of humour and kindsness. Darlene left a lasting impression. My sincere condolences to her family.

What a beautiful tribute from Derek Tukendorf! The “heavenly gardening duo”are definitely listening🫂 To the family of ‘Dar’ my most sincere condolences, Darlene was a woman who earned & deserved respect. RIP🙏

We were very sad to hear of Dar's passing. Halloween on Clitheroe will never be the same without her. She had such an infectious laugh and energy. We have loved watching her joy and love for her friends and family. We know this loss is devastating to her family. Please know that our prayers are with you all. We pray for peace and comfort to you all.

I was very saddened to hear Darlene had passed. Please know Jake and Kelly, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!!!

Heaven has truly gained a angel.R.I.P Dar knowing you touched so many people with your love.So sorry to you all for such a great loss❤️

Dar had a beautiful spirit and smile. We have very fond memories of Dar and we are glad that we had the opportunity to know her and her family. Thinking of you all at this very difficult time!. She will be missed!

I met Darlene at Canada Post this is where our friendship began 30yrs ago We introduced or families and have spend many yrs playing broomball snowmobiling to gatherings big or small Darlene love was so powerful she inspired me in many ways I will hold her in my heart forever. Sending big hugs to Bass and Family xoxoxo

Darlene was one of the most genuine women I have ever met. We had so much fun when she joined us in the spa every winter. So much love and joy was put into everything she ever did, gardening, spa treatments, family and friends. She will be missed, sending love to all of you xoxo

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Sweetest person I ever met. So sorry for your loss.

My condolences to the whole family. Darlene was such a kind, loving and vibrant soul. Every summer, Steph would invite me to stay at the cottage for a few days and Darlene always made sure we had a great time. Some hilarious game nights! She will be very missed.

Dear Lisa and family, Darlene’s personality was as big and beautiful as her smile! She lit up a room and was one of those people that just made you feel good. Our deepest condolences to you all. Love from the Militello family.

So sorry to hear this news. I have such fond memories of Dar’s mischievous laugh and wicked wit. Wish we could be there to grieve with you.

The passing of Darlene is going to leave tremendously huge hole to fill!!! She did so many good things behind the scenes and didnt require recognition for all the positive things that magically occured!! She was a gentle giant who always provided positive results!!! One of the nicest girls i ever went to CDCI high school with!! Not a bad word can be said about her!!! True condolences to all her family/friends!! Fly like a butterfly/sting like a bee in heaven!!!

Lisa, our hearts go out to you and your family at the loss of your beautiful sister. We hope that all the memories you have made together over the years will help console you in these sad times.

We are sorry to hear of Darlene's passing. We will miss her smile and happy go lucky attitude around the clubhouse. Thinking of you, Basil and your family. Take Care, Bill, Colleen and Brian

My deepest condolences to you all. May you rest and find peace in knowing how wonderful and well loved she was. It was a pleasure sharing Reiki with her. I will always remember her with a smile. She always inspired me with her bold grab life by the horns and go for it attitude! She will be missed.

To the O’Connor family……we are so very sorry to hear of your beautiful Darlene’s passing! She was such a pure, beautiful light that touched so many with her kindness! Her smile lite up a room! She will always be with you in your heart! Much love xo

So sorry for your loss. Our family is thinking about you Kelly, Jake, Maddie, Zoey and Sam. Thoughts and prayers to you all.

Always enthusiastic and joyful - Dar was an amazing teammate and a beautiful person.

So sorry for your loss, she will be missed

Lisa,Mike,Luke,Will and family. We are so sorry to hear about Darlenes passing. Sending our condolences to her family and friends. She will be missed by many. Thinking of you all. Jeff,Judi and family

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

Becky and Family, Dar was a unique person with an amazing soul. She was full of life, energy, and love. Her caring nature made her so special and she touched so many lives in the most meaningful way. Sending you guys all the love + hugs.

To the O’ Connor family Our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lisa, Mike, Luke, Will & the entire family, I am so sorry to hear of Darlene's passing. The Darlene I remember was full of life, always wore a smile, and was someone that lit up a room when she walked in. I hope these memories and more provide some comfort during this difficult time. Thinking of all of you.

Becky & Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of Darlene way back when she was our hockey coach. I Enjoyed playing Broomball against her...even though I could barely keep up. RIP Darlene💔

To all Darlene’s family my deepest condolences may she Rest In Peace 🙏

My deepest sympathies to Jake ,Kelly and family . May Darlene live on in your memories.

Jake and Kelly, so sorry to hear of your loss. Darlene had many friends and teammates from the Grafton area. She will be missed by all who had the opportunity to know her and her always welcoming heart.

Going to miss Darlene and Debbie at pine ridge nusery for their seasonal flower orders....just glad the team is back together again taken care of heavens garden....going to miss you girls.....but will never forget you...thanks 4 the memories....if your listening we could use some rain please

So very sorry to hear of the passing of Darlene, my thoughts and prayers go out to Becky and family in this difficult time.

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Ed's House Northumberland Hospice Care Centre

My very deepest sympathies to all of Darlene's family. She was such a beautiful lady inside and out.

To Darlene’s family we send our condolences and love. Dar was an amazing woman who loved life and was always a joy to be with. We played broomball together and always enjoyed our time together. May she rest in peace.

So sad to hear of Dar's passing. Although we only spent a short time together prepping for, and participating in the 55+ senior games, Dar was the kind of person that you don't easily forget. She was a bright light with an even brighter smile. Her enthusiasm and zest for life was contagious. My sincere condolences to the family.

Darlene was truly a beautiful soul. Her kindness, love and acceptance of all the misfits and broken things in this world made her a truly compassionate, accepting, and humble human being. She helped so many live the best life they could. She was a mother and friend to everyone she met. She will forever hold a place in our hearts. Rest in peace my beautiful green witch. May we meet again.

My deepest condolences to Jake. Kelly and Maddie and rest of the family; so deeply sorry to hear about your lost. Big hug and much love!

To Jake and Becky, My deepest condolences on your loss.

May Darlene rest easy now. What a loss for her family, friends and community!!

Condolences Jake & the O'Connor family. Its never easy losing a family member so young . Hope the memories guide you through the difficult days ahead . Take care of each other .

So very sorry for your Family loss Dar was such a beautiful person

So sorry to hear about Darlene passing. So many fond memories growing up together. She will be missed.

My deepest heartfelt condolences to Basil and the O'Connor family and the Miller family. Darlene was such a bright light in the world and one of my very best friends growing up. She adopted me in Grade 7 at St.Mary's even though I had none of her strengths or talents. She turned out to be a woman one could admire in every way. Strong yet beautiful and vulnerable. She loved and was extremely proud of her family as was evident by her annual notes in the Christmas cards. Sharing your sadness, Noreen

Darlene was a force of nature. Her love of gardening was only trumped by her love of family and friends.. Not to mention the fact that she was always the life of the party. In fact, she was the party. A devoted friend who will be so sorely missed not just by those who had the privilege of knowing her and basking in her light, but by the thousands of people who she has touched with the many beautiful gardens she and her dear friend Debbie left us. Rest in peace Darlene. Love and condolences to your family.

To the O'Conner and Miller families, Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of Darlene. She was such a vibrant and loving soul who’s spirit will live forever.

Becky and family so sorry to hear of your Mums passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time

My heart is with the O,Conner family at this time. Terry and family with love

So sorry to hear about Dar’s passing. My deepest condolences to the O’Connor family. I had the privilege of being Darlene’s winger in a number of seniors ladies hockey tournaments. She was such an energetic, bright and fun person. I know she will be missed by all who knew her.

So sorry to hear of Darlene’s passing. She was always a ray of sunshine and so much fun! Condolences to her family!

Our sincere condolences for your loss. Darlene was truly a beautiful woman inside and out and a pleasure to be around. Darlene’s smile and laugh were contagious. We will miss her zest for life. Please know you are all in our prayers thoughts and hearts during this difficult and sad time. She is now pain free and held securely in God’s loving arms. Rob and Cyndy Harper

My deepest condolences. I played broomball with Darlene. She was a nice lady and will be missed by many.

My deepest condolences. I played broomball with Jane. She was a nice lady and will be missed by many.

Darlene was a beautiful lady. Her beautiful smile and conversation will be missed by many. Hugs!

Thinking of you all. Darlene was an amazing woman and she will remain in my heart forever.

Kelly, Jake and family Thinking of you during this very difficult time. May all the wonderful memories keep your hearts full and help you through the loss of your Mom. Sending our deepest condolences to you and your family Dawn & Brad

Thinking of you all. So sorry for your loss. R.I.P