Brenda Lilian Weatherby

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Brenda Lilian Weatherby

April 24, 1939 - February 13, 2021

Peacefully, with her family by her side, at the St. Catharines General Hospital on Saturday, February 13, 2021, Brenda Weatherby (nee Downes) at 81 years of age. Loving partner of Keith Stahley. Beloved mother of Ross Orr and Valerie Annett (Mark). Dear grandmother of Gwyneth Orr, Chris Valois, Nicole Valois (Bryden Whitelaw), Andrea Miller (Stuart Miller), and great grandmother of Pierce Miller and Clara Miller. Predeceased by her siblings John Downes and Jean Irwin. Survived by her family in England and loved by her many friends. There will be cremation with a Celebration of Life to be held at a later date. Those wishing may make a memorial donation to the Canadian Cancer Society.

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Bruce - February 26, 2021

My sincere condolences to Brenda’s family and friends. Brenda you were a lovely soul and always a pleasure to talk to. I will miss seeing you out and about but I know you’re at peace and with loved ones now... till we cross paths again ❤️

Amanda Henshall (Orr) - February 26, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Canadian Cancer Society

Brian Beck - February 25, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss, I would like to pass along my deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Catherine Smith - February 24, 2021

To Brenda’s Family and Keith: Brenda was a feisty fun woman with a great sense of humour. I will with fond memories, think of our conversations with a smile. A donation has been made to the Canadian Cancer Society.

The We-fix-u Chiropody Team - February 23, 2021

Dear Keith, Ross, Valerie and families, We were very saddened to hear of Brendas' passing. She was someone that Mark always looking forward to treating her and we always looked forward to her visits. May your shared memories give you some peace and comfort at this difficult time. Sincerest condolences, Mark, Peter, Cristol and Debbie The We-fix-u Chiropody Team

Clay Leitch - February 23, 2021

I am a long time friend of Ross Orr. I wanted to pass long my condolences. I am sorry for your families loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Bette, Diane, Eric, Kathy and Phil - February 22, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Canadian Cancer Society

Lou & Heather Comeau - February 20, 2021

Keith & Brenda's Family Extending our condolences in the loss of your beloved Brenda. As former neighbours at 1 Queen Street we have fond memories of Brenda's upbeat, smiling personality with a sense of humour. Looked forward to our chats & left with a grin. She was a stylish gal.

Lori Thackeray - February 19, 2021

I’m so very sorry to hear of your moms passing! I was a PSW that came in to help with Keith and loved every minute I got to spend with her. She always spoke so highly of her children and grandchildren and was always happy to share pictures! A sad loss for you all. Take care.

Kate Hurman - February 19, 2021

Brenda was a force of nature, always up for a good chat and ready with her laughter. She was loved and will be missed.

William Stapleton - February 19, 2021

Brenda is a great lady anytime I went there with ross she treated me like a son going to miss her my thoughts and prays are with the family

Heather Polsinello - February 19, 2021

So sorry for your loss. I know she was a big part of all of your lives and will be terribly missed. Condolences the family. Sam and Heather.

Lori Pratt - February 19, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Northumberland Hills Hospital - Cancer Unit

Catherine Smith - February 19, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Canadian Cancer Society

Margaret Chapman - February 19, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Canadian Cancer Society

Carolyn Farrell - February 18, 2021 DONATION

A Memorial Donation has been made to the following charity:

Canadian Cancer Society

Margaret Chapman - February 17, 2021

Words cannot express the sorrow I feel at the loss of my dear friend.What good times we have had and laughed until we cried .Until we meet again .

Peter Dolphin - February 17, 2021

Rest in peace my lovely friend Brenda. Gunna miss ya gerl. My sincere condolences to Val and Ross and their families and to Keith.

Linda Sedgwick Girard - February 17, 2021

Please accept my sincere condolences . I remember your Mom as such a loving and caring Lady. She always had a smile . Sincerely Linda Sedgwick

Barb Swallow - February 17, 2021

Keith, Val, Chris, Nicole My condolences on Brenda’s passing. I only chatted with her a few times but her warmness and sense of humour were so present. Barb Swallow ( Birney)

Dr Morgan Hubbel - February 17, 2021

So sorry to hear a good friend has passed. I always enjoyed Brenda's smile and happy face and we shared many smiles as we kept up on family activities. Brenda was a patient who appreciated her care and was always the better for her visits. My thoughts are with all of you.

Irene (Sissy) Suitters - February 16, 2021

I will so miss you my very good friend. I have so much good memories of our times together.

Gary Walters - February 16, 2021

Sorry to hear . Met your Mom at tim all the time always funny make you laugh She will be missed

Barbara Halligan - February 16, 2021

Dear Val, Chris, Nicole and Andrea. I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom and grandma. I always enjoyed a chat when ever I saw her. She was always smiling. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Barb and Roger.

Jocelyn Westlake - February 16, 2021

I am so terribly sorry for all of your loss. I was Brenda's hairstylist so I know the kind of firecracker and how full of life she could be. I always looked forward to seeing her and hearing about the joys life brought her. She told stories that always involved her family. So even though most of you don't know me, I feel like I know you and my heart is heavy for you all. She always had stories and pictures to share. Brenda was always a happy and outgoing women, despite her health struggles. When she came to the salon she always put a smile on our faces! I will miss the sunshine she shared in my life. I am thinking of you all in this very difficult time. I do hope that you find peace in knowing she is no longer carrying the burden of hers or Keiths health on her shoulders. I am sending each of you prayers to heal.

Reg and Janice Buck - February 16, 2021

Val and family, we were so sorry to hear about your mom. She was always so happy and a delight to be around. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Sending hugs..

Carol Ann Heffernan - February 16, 2021

Keith, We are so sorry to hear this! Please accept our condolences for your loss of Brenda. Tom & CarolAnn Heffernan