Dylan Lichtenberger
Celebration of Life

Friday July 12, at 6 p.m. Lions Community Centre Cobourg

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Dylan Lichtenberger

August 21, 1986 - July 2, 2019

Dylan exuded passion and a larger than life attitude. He was a fierce and loyal friend, loving son, exuberant uncle Dyl, devoted and sensational husband, and an amazing daddy. He was the hardest worker, a wonderful mentor, did everything his way (and so did everyone else) and always spoke his truth. Dylan was always the first one to come in with a smile, crack a joke, raise a toast, or lend a hand. You could never threaten him with a good time because he did everything full tilt and to the bar. He left this earth on July 2 riding the wind with the adrenaline pumping, exactly the way he would have wanted. He will be dearly missed by his loving parents Joyce and Perry Lichtenberger, Oma Analies Lichtenberger, sister and brother-in-law Candice MacKenzie and Darryl Seminksy, nephew Marcus MacKenzie, and brother Adam Stoner with whom he shared a great love of music and rocked our world together. The whole music community is mourning the loss of a great drummer and guitarist. Daddy will live on in the lives of his wife Trisha Lichtenberger (nee Finlay), daughters Nova Melody and Aurora Analie, mother and father-in-law Dwight and Sheila Finlay, the entire Finlay and MacLean Families, his buddies around the world, and his dirt biking and work “families”. Nova wanted everyone to know that the best part of her daddy was everything.  Dylan, we hope that wherever you are, you have a front row seat to watch over your girls with an ice cold Peroni in your hand, a rocking set of drums and a full tank of gas in your bike and toy car. We love you so much it makes us sick.  At 6 pm on Friday July 12th at the Lions Centre in Cobourg (157 Elgin St E, Cobourg, ON) the kids will be playing, the bands will be rocking, the drinks will be pouring and we will be celebrating Dylan the way he would want. We welcome everyone to join the celebration (kids are encouraged to come spend some time with his girls).  In lieu of flowers, a daddy fund will be set up for Nova and Aurora to provide them with anything daddy would have wanted for them.   GoFundMe.  Condolences received at www.MacCoubrey.com. 

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Maurizio Campoli - July 22, 2019

Perry and family, my deepest sympathies go out to all of you for your tragic loss.

Antoinette Uguccioni - July 22, 2019

Hi Perry:I just found out today of the loss of your son Dylan. There are no words I have that will ease your pain. Take solace in knowing many people care. Just know his memories will keep him alive forever in your hearts. My deepest condolences to you your wife and family.

Giocondo,Connie,Anthony,Gilla Niro - July 19, 2019

Perry to you and your familyour Deepest Condolences, our prayers and thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.always know we are here for you.Dylan was a great guy and he will forever live through all the people that knew him and his family.Forever in our hearts.

janice buchanan - July 18, 2019

Our donations to the go fund was from the Buchanan and Wilkins families.

The Arthurs - July 17, 2019

What a tremendous shock to hear about Dylan's passing. Our deepest sympathies to friends and family.Cori, Don and Amy Arthur

Jill and David Ivatt - July 16, 2019

Dear Trisha, Nova, Aurora, and your familyOur heartfelt condolences for your loss of Dylan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time .

Vikki - July 16, 2019

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. In my thoughts and prayers, Vikki

Margaret Kropf - July 13, 2019

My deepest sympathies to Joyce and family n the loss of your beloved son.

Kirk and Kelsey Keating - July 12, 2019

Dylan was our neighbour in Airdrie and he was always willing to help us out with anything house related and have a good say. We greatly appreciated all his help and support the past three years. Our daughter was always so happy to see him in the driveway tinkering away. It’s hard to believe because he was so full of life and always so friendly and kind to us. We are thinking of Trish, the girls and all other family members during this time.Kirk, Kelsey and Sophie Keating

Wendy and Bruce Anthony - July 12, 2019

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Steven and Helen Gifford & Family - July 12, 2019

With our Deepest Sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We had the pleasure of meeting Dylan at Holly’s when he came to pick up Nova.

Tammy Elder - July 12, 2019

Joyce, Perry, Candace, Trisha and girls....I am thinking of all of you and know you will keep all those precious memories of Dylan alive in your hearts.Tammy

Malcolm Carey - July 11, 2019

Dylan was in a class of his own! It was a pleasure to have met him and play a round of golf with him. I learned a few things about business from him as well. Thank you Dylan.Deepest condolences to his family.Malcolm

Ann Kidd (Williams) and Alex - July 11, 2019

Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Jim Shaw & Patti-Jo McLellan Shaw - July 11, 2019

Dear Sheila and Dwight and family. We were saddened to learn of your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May your wonderful memories of Dylan be a source of strength. sincere condolences, Jim and Patti-Jo, Methuen lake

Heather Limpert - July 11, 2019

My deepest condolences. Dylan passed too young and too soon.I’ll be thinking of you tonight -cracking a cold Peroni and listening to very loud southern rock—and lifting a glass to Dylan. Peace and love to you all from the East Coast. ??

Bruce Rudichuk - July 10, 2019

I want to express my condolences to Trisha, the children and the entire Lichtenberger family.I first met Dylan approximately 5 years ago when he was considering coming to work for me. I must say I immediately noticed two things about him - first and foremost the light of his energy. He was for sure a "full tilt" personality and I could see that right away. Second, he had these really cool Coach loafers (funny that I remember that about my initial meeting). After joining the company we became closer - not only professionally, but personally as well. He not only shared, but was part of bringing our vision to life that shaped the company we were becoming. Most everyone in the company looked up to him as someone who could make decisions, get things done ... and win. I could easily see he was a leader. He was always pumped and ready to roll ... with a smile and a joke. We had a running dialogue about his favourite Robert Graham shirts.As I got to know him more personally I had the pleasure of meeting Trisha and Nova and getting to know about his many passions, most notably guitar and drums (which we talked about often) and his need to master horsepower. It seemed he had a different car every time we got together. He was always on the ready to lend a hand and give of himself any time of the day. It was easy to be drawn to Dylan's energy, his sense of humour, his love of his family and his confidence and his selfless nature. I have a deep affection for Dylan and I know his leaving is a loss for everyone that he touched.Helene and I will miss him dearly.Bruce & Helene Rudichuk

Caroline and Brian McNamara - July 10, 2019

We are so very sorry to hear of this sad news. Dylan was a kind and gentle person who always enjoyed life to the fullest. I always remember his pleasant and charming demeanour and how well he related to everyone. He had a love of life and it is sad that his was taken away so prematurely. Our thoughts are with Joyce and Perry and Trish and the children as well as with his other family members.

JoAnnKropf-Hedley - July 10, 2019

To Joyce , Perry and family . You have my sorrows. Be kind to your heart in the coming days ??

Gayl Nelson - July 9, 2019

To Trisha,girls and Dwight and SheilaSo sad for this to happen.Take care of one another. My prayers are with you.

Lynn O’Connell and Vince Boulerice - July 9, 2019

So sorry to hear the sad news of Dylan passing. Our thoughts are with your family at this very sad time.Sincerely, Lynn and Vince

Janet Turchak & Family - July 9, 2019

We were so very sad to hear of Dylan's passing. I worked with Dylan a few years ago and considered him a friend. He was full of life, a caring soul, and a great guy. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.Janet Turchak & Family

Daniel Serben - July 8, 2019

I'm the Controller for GBG.Dylan always treated me with respect (he flattered me) and he was so fun to work with.I, like everybody else here, will miss him greatly. His energy and positivity are irreplaceable and unforgettable.I am still shocked and saddened. Not sure what else to say. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Tony and Carol Farren - July 8, 2019

Dear Joyce and PerryOur deepest sympathy at the loss of your wonderful son.Thinking of you at this time. We are out of town or would be there to join in the celebration of a wonderful young man.SincerelyTony and Carol Farren

Silvana - July 8, 2019

Words, however kind, can’t mend your heartache, but those who care for you, share your grief and wish you comfort and peace of mind. Our condolences to you and the girls. He will be missed!

Dalton and Heather McDonald - July 8, 2019

To the Finlay, MacLean and Lichtenberger families.... our very deepest sympathy in your loss of Dylan .

Jeff Kristie Rhys Bryn - July 7, 2019

Unfortunately we can’t be with you today. Trish and families know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Dylan was such a big part of our family...always there for us and our boys. We shared great memories that will keep forever...doing what we loved. I know you will always be looking down on our families from up above as we will never forget the amazing human being you were. We love you Dylan and always in our hearts. We will always be there for Trish Nova and Aurora

Kathy Krakenberg - July 7, 2019

I never had the pleasure of being introduced to Dylan but I'm sure he's been present at many fundraisers for those in need thathis parents band and musician friends have hosted or been a part of over the last years along with the huge family of musiciansin this area. He sounds like the free spirit he was meant to be. My heart goes out to all of his family at this time. My thoughts andprayers are with you all at this terrible time. I look forward to celebrating his life with you in the future

Dianne Sheehan - July 7, 2019

Trish and the girls,I am Kelsy Keating's Mom. My heart goes out you as you deal with the loss of Dylan. Kirk called to let me know. May the shared memories give comfort to you and all of the families. Your beautiful girls will keep you going.Sincerely,Dianne Sheehan

Lois-Anne johns - July 7, 2019

I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Dylan. Your hearts must be broken. He was such a beautiful little boy. You're right. He was a very loyal friend to my son when they were little boys. My sincere sympathy to you. This is heartbreaking.

Linda Morrow - July 7, 2019

Honey, I wish I could say something that would comfort your greatest loss. I was just thinking about a memory of you. It was one of Adam and Jennifer's football parties, and you brought the most delicious steak and horseradish snack. Not sure why I even mentioned this story, other than I miss those times very much, because it's when our loved ones were still with us I guess. Wish I was closer to give you a hug honey. Love you lots. Linda Morrow

Rainer, Chris & Justin - July 7, 2019

You will always be in our hearts. You were one of the best. Thoughts & prayers are with you.

Randy Richardson - July 7, 2019

Dear Joyce, Perry, Candice and family, my deepest, heartfelt Sympathy and LOVE to you. Sometimes there are no answers but there will always be those Loving memories. Happy to say the last time i saw Dylan, we bonded laughed and glad we did! He was surrounded by LOVE as he is now. PEACE brother.

Leigh Ford - July 6, 2019

Goodbye my friend,We never got to do the raceBut my vet would have won lolYou are missed, fly high, until we meet again.Leigh

catherine boulerice - July 6, 2019

trisha hun i know u as trisha finley..just seen your pic and seen it was your hubby..omg so sorry to read this..sending prayers to you your girls at this sad sad time xxxoo from my heart

Steven & Andrea Green - July 6, 2019

Our deepest condolences to the family.We are very sadden to hear about Dylan.We knew Dylan at the age of 4 and into his teenage years, we will cherish those memories.To his wife and daughters, you were his world.To Joyce and Perry, you raised a good man.xo

Jayne Johnston - July 6, 2019

To all the family members--Didn't know Dylan--he just sounds like a sweet guy--he will be in my prayers--JJ

Delphine - July 6, 2019

Joyce and Perry :You are well loved. Please know that I do not presume to know your loss. You have a wonderful circle of friends and family who will try to look after you. Love, Delphine

Ryan O’Meara - July 6, 2019

I don’t even know where to begin. My condolences to his family and especially to Trish and his little girls. When I worked with Dylan it was such a pleasure to see his enthusiasm for life. He inspired and motivated me so much with his creativity and joyous nature. His impact on my life will always be a cherished memory. Such a terrible loss, Rest In Peace brother you will never be forgotten. Sincerely Ryan