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Peacefully with family by her side, on Monday March 18th, 2024, Brenda Crossley of Brighton, Ontario passed away in her 74th year. Cherished daughter of the late Roy Crossley and the late Margaret Crossley (Mulvey). Beloved wife of the late Donald Blackler. Loving mother of Jennifer Crossley, Vanessa Crossley (Dave Park) and Nicholas Blackler (Melinda Ellerton). Adored grandmother of Chloe Crossley-Grycko, Rowen Blackler, Jaden Blackler, Eli Park and Mable Blackler. Much loved sister of Shirley Crossley (Aunt of the late Royce Hickman and Sister-In-Law of the late Keith Hickman). Please Join us for a Celebration of Life in honour of Brenda on Sunday April 28th, 2024 from 1-3 pm. at Lalies and the Dutch, 7 King St., E., Cobourg. (Please RSVP to Vanessa: Text 613-503-4200 or email vanessacrossley@gmail.com). Those wishing to donate in memory of Brenda are asked to consider the Northumberland Cat Adoption (cheques made payable to Sherri Smith), of which Brenda passionately volunteered for.
Brenda will be greatly missed by her family and her many close and lifelong friends.
Dear Jennifer, Vanessa, Nick and families: We are so saddened to hear of the loss of your Mom and Grandma. Shirley, you and Brenda were so close, my heart breaks for you all. She will live on in your hearts, and ours too. We live in Nova Scotia now, or we'd be there on the 28th. to comfort you and share stories. Brenda, thank you for being a friend for over 40 years. with love and tears Joan and Dave
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Brenda Crossley - Who to me growing up was like an aunt and gave me such a beautiful look on life. She brought that down to her children and anyone who she met. I was so glad to see her enjoy time with her wonderful grandchildren. Forever in our hearts ❤️❤️❤️
Nicholas - my deepest condolences to all of you. Lots of wonderful memories to cherish.
Nick Wayne and I would like to send our deepest condolences to you and your family. I knew your mom for many years and she was an amazing person.
My sincerest condolences to Nick and family
Vanessa & family Please except my sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. My thoughts are with you at this sad time. Ashley’s Mom Susan Dudley
Brenda and I met years ago when Tradewinds was the bulk food store in Cobourg. We didn't see each other for many years until we met up again when she sold her house in Lakeport. We had some fun memories to share and I will smile when I plant her canna tubers that she gave me. Sorry for her family, thinking of you. And I was glad to have known Brenda, a dear soul.
Sending love and hugs to Brenda's family in this time of loss. She was a beautiful Soul whom i was very blessed to have met. She was the kindest woman with such a gentleness i won't forget. Sending my condolences to you all. Much love. Hug each other and remember the amazing woman she was always
Dear Jennifer, Chloe and Family, Our deepest condolences for your loss. We first met Brenda over 20 yrs ago. She was a loving, interesting, brilliant, kind sole who loved her family and nature. She courageously and fearlessly battled her health problems. Brenda you are “One of a Kind” and will be missed Love Ray & Donna
Jen, Vanessa, Nick, although we lost touch I have many fond memories of your Mom. I loved hosting you girls in Matawatchan with the excitement of the bear approaching us while playing on the deck. Your screams certainly scared it off pretty quick. Cherish the good memories of your Mom and take care of each other. Wendy Southward Kelowna, B.C.
We shared so many laughs… she taught me so much wisdom…. Our last visit was talk of our appreciation and love for each other! A true warrior Brenda was! You will all be in my thoughts and prayers! Love Kath
My condolences. Such a lovely lady. I knew Brenda when I worked for Access Community Services.
I knew Brenda many many years ago and liked her so much. Heartfelt condolences to her family.
Sorry to hear of Brenda’s passing. It was nice to reunite with her just a short time ago. Condolences to Brenda’s family and friends.
Jen, Vanessa, Nick and family, Our condolences on the loss of your mother. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Don & Pam Leaman
My deepest condolences to the Crossley family. I will certainly miss Brenda.
So sorry to hear that Brenda has passed away. Have known her from my many years working in the pharmacy. My condolences to you Nick and Mel and family and to your sisters. You are in my thoughts
A gentle, kind soul. Brenda and I became friends in mid-'70s Colborne and enjoyed updates whenever we met in later days. I share in your loss.
To Brenda’s family. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I really enjoyed talking with Brenda, she was such an enlightening soul. RIP Brenda.